We all admit that we want people to like us. One of the deepest drives of human nature is the desire to be appreciated. The feeling of not being wanted or needed is one of the most devastating in one’s life. This can produces Illness, frustration and serious psychological consequences.  To be a master of popularity, you must become one of those rare character about whom people say: He/She has something. To get people to like you, become comfortable with yourself. Be easy going and natural, having a pleasant, kind personality. You must be easy to be with and good company. Many times, you have to create an outstanding example.  Like the people you come across. Do not perfect your faults but spend the rest of your life building capacity for friendliness.  Practice building up people’s egos. Make people feel important. Build up as many people as you can then they will give you their undying devotion. Do it unselfishly.   Be warned though, you will never get everybody to like you. Be wise not to let this affect you if you do not achieve perfect popularity with everyone.


About klungiwe

Katherine Lungiwe is a Sales executive. One of my best quote is “If it’s going to be, it’s up to you”.

Posted on December 10, 2007, in Uncategorized. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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