If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

 If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.

 Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

 Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from

 Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship
 that’s not meant to be.

 Slower is better.

 Never live your life for a man before you find what makes
 you truly happy.

 If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you
 as you deserve then heck no, you can’t ” be friends”.

 A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.  Don’t settle.

 If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
 probably is
 Don’t stay because you think “it will get better”
 You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when
 things are not better.
 The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

 Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of
 different women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why
 would he treat you any differently?

 Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
 Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.  If something
 bothers you, speak up.

 Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against
 you later.

 You cannot change a man’s behavior.* Change comes from

 Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you
 are… Even if he has more education or in a better job.

 Do not make him into a quasi-god.
 He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
 Never let a man define who you are.
 Never borrow someone else’s man.
 If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
 A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat

 All men are NOT dogs.

 You should not be the one doing all the bending…
 Compromise is two way street.

 You need time to heal between relationships…
 There is nothing cute about baggage….
 Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

 You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…
 A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals….
 Look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.

 Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr.
 Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always know where
 you are, and you’re always readily available to him – he
 takes it for granted

 Never move into his mother’s house.  Never co-sign for
 a man.
 Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you
 everything that you need.*
 Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

 Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in
 relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phill

 You should know that:
 You’re the best thing that could ever happen to anyone
 and if a man mistreats you, he’ll miss out on a good
 thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place, just
 know that he’s not the only one.

 They’re all watching you, so you have a lot of choices.

 Make the right one.

 Ladies take care of your own hearts….

Share this with other women and men (just so they know)…

 You’ll make someone smile, another rethink her choices,
 and another woman prepare.



About klungiwe

Katherine Lungiwe is a Sales executive. One of my best quote is “If it’s going to be, it’s up to you”.

Posted on March 10, 2009, in Uncategorized. Bookmark the permalink. 1 Comment.

  1. woh……Oprah had to say this.

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